Written by Farel Hruska, Rebounding from labor and delivery is a process. You think that you should lose the baby weight and be back where you were before. Here is the reality of the  postpartum woman: It took nine months to gain the weight, allow at least  that long on the way back.
In addition to your body housing a growing baby and the extra weight it  took on for the job, many other changes occurred. The hormone relaxin  was released in your body to loosen your joints. This hormone helped  your pelvis adjust for your growing baby. Just because you delivered  your beautiful bundle of joy, doesn't mean your skeletal structure  returns to its previous position. Your hips bones may be wider, and that  isn't necessarily a bad thing!
Muscular changes are also apparent; a lengthened Trapezius, hand-in-hand  with tightened pectorals, lead to forward shoulders. The weight of the  breasts can cause discomfort as milk production begins, as well. The  energy needed to care for a newborn can lead to fatigue and muscle pain.  All that being said, go easy on yourself. 
Beginning a workout after giving birth can be intimidating, but as you  get in to a regular routine, you will start to see some very profound  strides towards lean muscle mass and the reduction of fat. In addition,  you will lower your resting heart rate, expand your cardiovascular  threshold, sculpt your muscles and gain more energy along the way.
You may, in fact, be healthier now versus pre-pregnancy! How about that?  So, you don't fit in your old jeans? So, the number on the scale isn't  what it was when you were single? Great! Celebrate this change in life.  Enjoy the beautiful and glorious gift of being able to bring a child  into the world. Enjoy your health, your energy, your everyday victories  and the moment by moment, overwhelming joy of being "Mom". Above all, go  easy on yourself. It is about the journey!
Nine Months Off
Here are some month-by-month tips for getting back  into shape after baby:
Month 1Focus on reconditioning your core--abdominals and pelvic floor  muscles--with gentle pelvic rocks and kegels. The pelvic floor can  actually drop up to one inch just from pregnancy. These exercises can  begin in the hospital bed (barring pain).
Month 2Start gentle walking. Start with a 5 to 15 minute gentle walk and slowly  increase time and intensity. Exercise at this point should be stress  relieving not stress producing.
Month 3Take baby out for a stroller workout. Include hills, intervals with  changing your speed, and focus on good posture. Good stroller walking  form includes leading with your chest, keeping hips close to the  stroller handles, shoulder blades pulled back and down, abdominals  engaged and wrists in neutral alignment with the arm.
Month 4Use your baby as a weight and work out with baby. Try crunches with baby  on your belly or hip bridge with he/she on your stomach as resistance.  Even wearing the front carrier can be a workout. Try scapular  retractions--pulling shoulder blades toward spine--with the weight of  the carrier as resistance!
Month 5Even if you're not nursing, continue to eat as if your food fuels your  baby. Chances are you'll make better choices for your baby then for  yourself. Remember to choose whole foods, fruits and vegetables
Month 6Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate. You should be drinking eight 8 oz glasses of  water a day. Add another glass for each hour of activity.
Month 7Make sure you're eating often enough...instead of a few big meals a day,  try to eat five to six mini meals throughout the day.
Month 8Consistency is key. You should be working out 30 to 60 minutes on most,  if not all, days of the week. It doesn't have to be a traditional  workout to count as activity.
Month 9You're a role model mom. Focus on health and wellness instead of a size  or a number on the scale. Children understand sooner than you think!              
     Farel Hruska has over 16 years  experience as a personal trainer and group fitness instructor. She is  the National Fitness Director for Stroller Strides holding Stroller  Strides certifications throughout the country and supporting hundreds of  instructors nationwide.
Hruska is a national educator and presenter in pre/postnatal fitness  education. She is also a CEC provider for the American Council on  Exercise and Aerobics (ACE) and The Fitness Association of America  (AFAA). farel@strollerstrides.com